From what I gather, Emma loves to fantasize about being in control. She's a bit of a power girl, and she enjoys imagining herself in situations where she's the one calling the shots. It's not uncommon for her to daydream about being with someone who can keep up with her, someone who can match her wit for wit and passion for passion.

As I sat on the couch, flipping through TV channels, I couldn't help but notice my step-daughter, Emma, staring off into space. Her eyes had a glazed-over look, and I could tell she was a million miles away. I've seen that look before, and I knew exactly what it meant – she was lost in her dirty daydreams.

It's not just about sex, though that's certainly a part of it. It's about feeling desired, feeling wanted, and feeling like she's the center of attention. And, as her step-dad, it's my job to make sure she doesn't get too caught up in those fantasies.

Growing up, I never thought I'd be part of a family that would be considered "pervy." But, life has a way of surprising you, and here I am, married to a woman with a daughter who has a flair for the dramatic and a love for all things explicit.

I've tried to talk to her about it before, but she just shrugs it off, saying it's "no big deal" and that she's "just thinking." But I know better. I've seen the way she looks at certain guys, the way she smiles to herself when she thinks no one is watching. It's clear that Emma has a rich inner life, and a significant part of it involves some pretty explicit fantasies.