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The car pool or school bus is where children trade tiffin items. A paratha for a cheese sandwich. This informal barter system is the first lesson in the Indian economics of adjustment. Meanwhile, the women of the house finally get thirty minutes of silence. They sit on the aangan (courtyard) or sofa with their second cup of tea, discussing the neighbor’s new car or the rising price of tomatoes—a subject more volatile than the stock market. The Afternoon Lull: Secrets and Soap Operas From 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM, the house enters a state of suspended animation. The men are at work, the children are at school, but the women and the retired elders hold the fort. This is the time for daily soaps ( saas-bahu dramas) which, ironically, mirror the very power dynamics playing out in the living room.
The gossip is the main course. Who got married? Who got divorced? Which uncle is being difficult about the property? These stories are told with exaggerated hand gestures and sound effects. The car pool or school bus is where
"My grandmother puts a 'Do Not Disturb' sign on her phone during her afternoon nap," laughs 22-year-old Riya from Mumbai. "But she doesn't understand why I put a lock on my bedroom door. For her, an open door means an open heart." Meanwhile, the women of the house finally get